
|
|
|
|
|
|
Comments: Haircut & gym? Busy day 😜 People who know me well would call me lazy. I have basically always find a way to work less and get it done faster.I have always picked family over work and ladder to the top. No regrets at all. With all that said, I was talking about life in Iran vs America or anywhere else. It’s impossible to compare lives when we don’t live there. I see my cousins back home having certain fun I have always desired but I can’t be sure if they are truly happy. Same goes with them. They believe living in America is like a Hollywood movie. I know what I want and I can get 50-60% of it here. I think I might get the rest back home but obviously can’t get all of them back home either, at least not under current circumstances.
Comments: Hamvatan ![]()
Comments: I have been working out!
Comments: Zinsky
Sorry but to get the discussion started (since I still have a haircut and a trip to the gym to go before I can settle down), I should say that may be we are saying the same thing or differ. To explore this, let me ask you which of the two choices do you prefer for yourself (clearly different people would chose differently):1. You are not so wealthy, do not have any luxuries in your life, barely can afford a basic car, but have limited pension that allows you to continue as you are but not better, and you can retire at the age of 50, in a community that is woven together fairly tightly. 2. You make good amount of money. Are in the upper middle class of a rich society, have many luxuries in your life including a couple of brand new cars, and friends who are just like you and with whom you do the weekend mehmoonies, you take expensive two week vacations every year, but cannot really retire if you want to maintain all of that and have to go after least until you are 70 (some times longer) before you retire in a motorized society where you have to drive to buy a piece of bread for your breakfast. Which would you prefer? I think the choice is clear for the dehati in Tehran. But for you and I who are thinking about this more carefully, it is complicated. If you really stop and think about all the aspects, the choice quickly becomes complicated. There is the life style while you are working, there is the life style after you stop working, and there is the 20 years of extra labor that you have to extend. These are the minimum considerations. If you think a bit more, things become even more complicated. You will end up with questions like how many $$$ is it worth for me to see my family, friend (whoever) 4 hours less each day for 20 years. How many $$$ is it worth for me to accept that when I see them after work for an hour or two, I will be tired and really would not engage them in the way I would like because I am just tired from work.
Comments: Faramarz, I’ve been waiting!!!🥴 Before you get a chance to explain, let me tell you what I think. Quality of life is pretty complicated. Money is a big factor but not as big as most believe. I agree that being part of a community is even more important. Good friends and family is much more important than being rich, financially. What I was arguing about was knowing what people go through everyday in different countries. We take things for granted wherever we live. We feel the pain more when it happens to us. Another factor is the fact that people complain in general but don’t want others to know their real issues. They keep their cheeks red as much as possible.
Comments: Scary movie! Not that type of scary but scary nonetheless https://m.imdb.com/title/tt19800020/
Comments: Zinsky jAn, let me tell you what I mean a bit later. Work is coming in the IFP way!
Comments: Mehdi Taj, president of Iran’s Football Federation, announced that the country has over $33 million in assets frozen in FIFA and the Asian Football Confederation (AFC) due to U.S. sanctions. During an interview with Iran’s state-run IRIB TV on Friday, Taj discussed the nation’s attempts to recover the assets from FIFA and AFC. He stated that Iran’s financial claims from FIFA and AFC are $28 million and between $5 million and $6 million, respectively. While FIFA supports Iran’s claims, the funds remain inaccessible because foreign banks cannot transfer them due to the closure of the country’s SWIFT code, a result of U.S. sanctions. Taj mentioned a recent meeting between Iranian President Ebrahim Raisi and FIFA President Gianni Infantino on the sidelines of the 78th session of the United Nations General Assembly in New York. During this meeting, Raisi emphasized to Infantino that “when FIFA insists that politics is separate from football, it should be careful not to let politicians interfere in running his organization, and that blocking Iran’s funds is essentially a political move.” Infantino reportedly informed Taj of a meeting set for Oct. 24 in Paris. If the issue remains unresolved by that date, it will be a primary topic of discussion. Additionally, a workshop is planned in Tashkent, the capital of Uzbekistan, on Oct. 3 and 4. An Iranian delegation will attend, and the topic of Iran’s blocked assets will be on the agenda.
Comments: That is certainly true, Rashti! Terms of the Turkemenchai treaty: The terms of the treaty are as follow[12][13]
Comments: Faramarz, I would like to push back a little on quality of live in Iran vs USA. Financial issues aside, it's really hard for anyone to compare the quality of life between any two countries unless the same person lives in both countries. I know for me it is not fair to compare Iran vs USA since I only visit Iran and live here. The same goes with my friends/family living in Iran. My friend who lived, worked and retired in Iran and moved here almost 3 years ago is a much better person to evaluate the differences. He was very excited when he received his documents to move here. He was smart enough to keep his house back home. He is completely convinced that living here for him is not an option. Financial issues are one of the main issues, but he just can't adjust to American/Iranian lifestyle. He is in LA and very quickly noticed the same issues I had living in SoCal for over 20 years. Again, that doesn't mean one place is better than the other. It is a preference. Some like one and others might like the other. To me the biggest headache has been dealing with people who believe it's either this or that, nothing else. They fight you till death if what you prefer is different from them!!! Just because I like something and you like something else, it doesn't mean one is better than other.
Comments: آقا فرامرز منهم فکر میکنم کار سختی نباشه ولی اول حکومت ایران باید درست بشه. تا وقتی که از ایران بترسند همه قراردادها با امریکا خواهد بود.
Comments: Yeah that is a tough sell right now! But I do not see it far fetched. It is not hard to convince those countries into at least an economic pact creating something like the EU. Culturally, most feel they are as much persian as we are. There is an amazon documentary about the Silk Road and I was very surprised to find out how much of their daily lives the attribute to the Persian culture in countries like Uzbekistan and Georgia. Countries like TAjikestAn are a given.
Comments: Good luck getting any of those countries joining Iran of today. They might have accepted some sort of agreement if Iran wasn’t Iran of now!
Comments: I am wondering about the GolestAn and Turkemenchai agreements. This is what Wikipedia says: Following this treaty, as well as the Treaty of Gulistan, Russia had finished conquering all the Caucasus territories from Qajar Iran what is now Dagestan, eastern Georgia, Azerbaijan, and Armenia, all of which had formed part of its very concept for centuries.[5] The areas north of the Aras River, such as the territory of the contemporary nations of Georgia, Azerbaijan, Armenia and the North Caucasian Republic of Dagestan, were Iranian until they were occupied by Russia during the 19th century.[6][7][8][9][10][11] Following the two treaties, the formerly Iranian territories came under the Russian, and later the Soviet control for approximately 180 years, and Dagestan remains a constituent republic within the Russian Federation to this day. Comprising most of the territory ceded in Gulistan and Turkmenchay treaties, three separate nations would gain independence following the dissolution of the Soviet Union in 1991: Georgia, Azerbaijan and Armenia.
Comments: Zinsky jAn, I think I told you guys about the cousin my age (a little younger) who has retired now in Iran. Definitely, in terms of capital, he has less than I do. But also definitely has less liabilities than I do. The real question is not who is making more. It is rather what is let once all is said and done. When you add the total, I am actually not a whole lot better off than my cousin in Iran because of all the future liabilities (this is a lot more than just loans). I am only comparing the finances because those who go on about the american dream always bring the finances in. They remind me of the old joke that the dehati came to Tehran and once he saw the big city he said dige Iran bar nemigardam.
But once you get over the dehati perception, what is left, and is actually pretty important which is the quality of life. In that aspect, I have to say that the cousin has me beat by a mile with all the interactions that he has with not just the family, but also the neighbors and friends. The level of human connection is so diminished in this society that always thrives to advance the self and look solely for ones own interest alone. This is how we bring people to justify the killing of millions around the world through the money in our pocket.
Comments: I should stop!!! ![]() Why do we care so much for what others think, do or say? Is that a cultural thing?
Comments: [video]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aSBidY-id3I&ab_channel=%DA%A9%D8%A7%D9%88%D8%B4%D9%85%D8%AF%DB%8C%D8%A7Kavoshmedia[/video]
Comments: معاون جهاد کشاورزی کرمانشاه خبر داد؛ شناسنامهدار شدن یک هزار و ٢٠٠ راس اسب کرد در کرمانشاه
Comments: I brought up an old friend who has recently won a lottery to move to US. I see him as a useful 50+ Iranian who are leaving Iran. They are mainly concerned about their kids. From education to safety and freedom. After couple of years here, he can’t wait to go back after he gets his US passport. He wants to be able to travel freely but doesn’t want to live here. When I asked him about life in Iran, he put it in a simple way. He mentioned that older people don’t get harassed if they are not political. The system back home doesn’t care much for drinking, partying or even hejab for older folks. Their focus is on younger ones. They realize the younger generation are the ones who are active and could cause problems for them. He also said something that made sense to me. Older folks are not as worried about cost of living if they have worked, have a house and all basic needs. Food prices are going higher but when one is in his/her 60s, they can afford it due to the savings (for now). The biggest problem is that younger generation are not seeing any future. They can’t afford a house, car and other basic needs. They are harassed and pressured when trying to have basic fun.
Comments: آقا فرامرز شما درست میگید. ولی خیلی جالبه برای من که آنهایی که با این دو نفر میپرند چه جور همراهی خودشون رو با این دو نفر بعد از این همه رفتار فجیع توجیه میکنند. از یک طرف چقدر ادعا دارند و نسخه برای همه مملکت میپیچند از طرفی با این افاضل ترسو میپرند. |
| < Previous 20 | Next 20 > |